Complete it separately first
Invite each spouse to read and answer the assessment privately before discussing scores. That protects honesty and helps each person notice what they are really feeling.
Thank you for joining the Built For Covenant journey. While your audit is on its way, the strongest next step is the Book + Workbook Bundle, which gives couples language, exercises, and guided conversations they can start using immediately.

This assessment works best when couples use it as a shared mirror rather than a weapon. The goal is not to prove who is right. The goal is to surface what is true, understand where strain is building, and choose the next conversation with grace and clarity.
Best delivery guidance
Download the PDF, print it if possible, complete it individually, and then schedule an unrushed conversation. If emotions rise, pause and return later rather than forcing resolution in one sitting.
Invite each spouse to read and answer the assessment privately before discussing scores. That protects honesty and helps each person notice what they are really feeling.
Set aside a calm moment, bring the printed PDF or your notes, and take turns sharing what surprised you. The goal is clarity, not winning an argument.
Do not try to solve everything in one sitting. Use the assessment to identify the single area that needs the most care right now and start there.
Once the assessment surfaces the pressure points, the book and workbook help couples move from awareness into language, reflection, and practical next steps.
Your free marriage audit is framed as the first step in the Built For Covenant journey and should be delivered from your connected lead system.
The audit should help couples name the tension they are facing and identify the most important conversation to have next.
The book and workbook bundle is presented as the most natural next step for couples who want guidance they can use immediately at home.